Instructions for the Departed
It is recommended to read these instructions aloud to the departed once or twice a day during the 24 to 72 hour transition period. Speak to them just as you did before they died, using the same tone of voice, familiar names and expressions. You can be assured that they will hear you for several days after the body has died.
___________________ (person’s familiar name), listen to my voice. I am here with you and will now explain what is happening. Your body has ceased to function. The breath has stopped and the limbs are cold and immovable. What is called “death” has finally come. It comes to every body. But listen! You can hear my words, so you can’t be dead. Isn’t that true? In this experience is the miracle of miracles, that there is no death. The worst thing that can possibly happen to you has now happened, and you’re alright. Nothing can hurt you now. You are invincible! Rejoice in the victory of this moment.
The time has come for you to forget about Earth life and the ___________ (first and last name of person) experience. You have no unfinished business here. I (we) will take care of everything that needs to be done. If you will trust me now, it’s time to let go and move on.
Over the next few days, the Earth scene will seem to fade, move away to one side or recede. Do not be afraid. You will be guided every step of the way. If you sense the presence of a light, this is the primordial nature of your soul. It may seem clear, luminous and transparent like a cloudless sky. Or it may seem shining and brilliant like the sun. Or it may seem soft and opaque like moonlight through silver clouds. This is your true nature, ever shining behind your mind. Thoughts and feelings may come and go, but this luminous presence never changes. This is who you are. Feel how familiar the presence is. Embrace it. Merge with it.
If you feel distracted by strong images or feelings, be not afraid. These hallucinations arise naturally out of mind and cannot harm you. You are now held firmly in the womb of the Divine and can never be lost. Just remember the clear light whenever you can and gently let your awareness rest there as much as possible. If the light seems to move, follow it. It will lead you where you need to go. Or, you may feel the presence of __________ (favorite name of God, Christ, Buddha, or favorite Devata, angel, saint or guru). Follow _______ (him/her). ________(He/She) will lead you.
At other times, you may feel yourself passing through a dark tunnel or valley. The darkness may seem overwhelming, oppressive, unending. Do not fear. You are safe. You are passing through the stages of death, just as countless others have done before you, and just as you yourself have done many times before. You are completely safe. This process is governed by the immutable laws of nature. Try to remain awake and aware during the process. There is profound truth in it. You are going home.
In time, the darkness will open up into a new and wondrous life beyond death and you will extract the golden essence of the life just lived. This will be a fascinating and deeply satisfying experience. You will see for yourself just how much truth, beauty and love is in every human life.
You’ve been a wonderful ___________ (mother, father, brother, friend, etc.). You’ve made a huge difference in my life and the lives of many others here on Earth. I will remain connected with you in my heart and will always send you my love and gratitude.
